Little did I know 10 years ago the day I took my very first supply job at Andover Early Years Centre that right now, I would be looking down on the building site of that knocked down nursery standing next to Prince Michael of Kent, or that I would have worked in 85 different child care providing establishments. I like to think that is one of the things I do well, go into a nursery and slot right in.
First things first, what is a nursery nurse you ask? It is not to do with nursing, it is to do with nurseries and the job is also known as Early Years Educator, which is more accurate but well, old habits die hard!
So its 7:30, the school have given you the placement and you are on your way...
Top 10 tips to being a supply nursery nurse
1. Travel Help
Keep a map or phone with GPS and web access, TfL Journey Planner is your friend. Check out the route and pick the simplest. The last thing you need in a new area is complicated directions that will probably make your journey longer.
2. Bags
Your bag should contain: your smartphone (may need to call up agency, use internet to survive boredom on long journeys), ipod (again, to survive boredom on long journeys. My present placement is 1 hour away minimum and frequently longer). Oyster card (don't get stuck buying tickets in long queues at the station if you can avoid it). I.D (some schools require it), money / lunch.
3. Lunch
You can take lunch, but be prepared not all nurseries will have microwaves, indeed not all nurseries even have staffroooms. For this reason I prefer to take money and visit a local cafe just until I have sussed out the facilities and the friendliness of the staff. It ain't fun sitting in the staffroom for an hour with no one to talk to.
4. Important info
Once you find the school and sign in, your first questions should be:
Where are the fire exits?
Where are the toilets, children's and adults?
What is the timetable? (sometimes I leave this one, it makes things more entertaining throughout the day)
When are the breaks, how long are the breaks?
Are there any children I should be particularly aware of for any reason? (again, if left to chance this can make things more interesting and means you don't have any preconceptions. how ever it is useful to know if Mohammed is a child genius and as he knows the entire works of Mozart already Twinkle Twinkle maybe beneath him or Susie is prone to violent outbursts, or Julio does not speak or understand a word of English).
What time will you need me till? (this rarely matches the time the agency have told you, usually they tell you 3:30 and the school say 4pm, I haven't yet worked out who is getting it wrong).
5. Names
If you can't remember names, just call them 'babe', you can also say 'darling', 'sweetheart' and 'honey' depending on personal preference, these are more likely to get responses from the children such as 'i'm not honey, I'm a girl'. If anyone complains point out you have had to learn 60 new names this week, its the best you can do. I think I have worked with and had to remember the names of over 2000 children, it gets hard and something has to give.
6. The teachers are always right, even when they are wrong. Supply nursery nursing probably isn't the best career for someone who doesn't like to be bossed about and it is generally just to get to work with what ever you are asked, however stand your ground.
Some places do like to take liberties and might have you with too many children, for daycare the ratios are these:
0 - 2 years = 1:3
2 years = 1:4
3 - 7 years = 1:8
I was asked not to return to one nursery after complaining about them breaking the ratios, I don't regret that, it is better for you to stand up for yourself and lose work at that school than risk losing your career from any consequence of them breaking the rules. Your agency should be supportive and find you another school, if not then change agency.
Be confident with yourself and the school will be confident with you.
7. Go the extra mile
If it is a school you like and you want to be asked back, it is good to go the extra mile. Impress them, do it anyway, schools communicated and if you have a good reputation with one school you never know where it might lead. One way that always goes down well is cleaning and tidying - teachers love it when the nursery nurse does a good job with the cleaning paints for example
8. Practical clothes
This should have come earlier but here is now, don't wear a suit or white or designer clothes. It ain't cool, it ain't practical and it suggests you don't have a clue about what is involved in the care, development or education of young children. Unless of course you really don't mind your favourite designer clothes being puked, pooed or painted on. BTW Keep white vinegar at home, it gets rid of puke, poo, paint and blood. Amazing stuff.
9. Learn the most common books off by heart, they are a great fall back option when needed, most nurseries will have them too, such as 'We're going on a bear hunt' and 'The Hungry Caterpillar are my favourites.
10. Have fun, this is a must have of any top 10 list so I thought I would include it here. Some places are just lovely, some can be shockers but your day will go a lot quicker if you can enjoy it and have fun.